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Moving my blog! (if you didn’t know already)

queenasbloghasbeenmoved:

Just another reminder for all those that follow me that still want to follow me.

I moved my blog. But I’m keeping the same URL (that’s why I changed the URL for this blog)

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long distances.

kweenasue:

All it is is that your heart has to get used to it. It is and will be painful, but sometimes, you just have to push the other person out of your head a little and concentrate on your own gig. Don’t let the other person hinder you ability to be your best. Don’t obsess. Don’t cling. I guess, just be more independent. Be VERY understanding of the other person. Know why he/she is busy. Don’t assume that s/he is ignoring you, finding other people, partying. The silence will tell how strong your love is for each other. If you can survive a day without talking but still go to bed normally, you’ll get through it. BUT, don’t go to the point where you learn to live without them. That, is the end of all relationships. Always know in your heart that you love him/her and s/he loves you the same.No faltering. 

Patience. Understanding. Commitment.That’s all it takes.

Btw, I wrote this on my new blog! Follow that one! :D Thank you! <3

My blog has been moved!

Just another reminder for all those that follow me that still want to follow me.

I moved my blog. But I’m keeping the same URL (that’s why I changed the URL for this blog)

kweenasue.tumblr.com

Thanks :D

I AM MOVING MY BLOG!

Still going to use the same URL. But it’ll be a personal blog, not a private blog like this one is.

That way, I can answer questions under my URL name. Might be confusing. Followers! I will be sending you all a message to follow my blog, so please follow!

I want to quit.

All I wanted was to play Varsity 3 singles in badminton.

What the —. I don’t understand. I was suppose to play V3 last year, but Charlotte Ledesma came back out of no where. I beat her in the tournament. But coach made us play an unofficial game up to 10 points. I didn’t really try and I lost. So he put her for V3. I tried to challenge her, but she never showed up. So I just gave up. What the hell.

And now this year. Another random girl comes in and takes V2, giving my sister V3, and me… doubles. What the HELL. I am NOT going to play doubles. I don’t care. I don’t have a problem with my partner, I just can’t play with her. And she’s not happy with me as her partner anyways. It’s so awkward. I’d rather quit. There’s not place for me on the team. What a waste of my time.

I know I’m not really good at playing, but I’ve worked so hard to play Varsity up to my senior year. Ughhh. Whatever. I guess badminton just wasn’t meant to be my sport. F**K. I should’ve done cross country. At least there, I’d be a varsity runner. 

A-Z.

A. Why my last relationship ended: It was a summer fling! Long distance. Awkwardness with parents. Awkwardness in general. But he’s still a great friend.

B. Favorite band: Without a doubt, RELIENT K, for all eternity.

c. Who I like and why I like them: Uhhh. I like you because you took the time to read this. Or will read the whole thing.

D. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through: A relationship; making it last and stay.

E. My best friend: Calvin Nguyen and Ruhani Amath

F. My favorite movie: I don’t have just one… Wall E, A Walk to Remember, Up, Inception, The Last Castle, The King’s Speech. I just love a good film.

G. Sexual orientation: Classified.

H. Do I smoke/drink: Neverrrrr.

I. Have any tattoos or piercings? Well, I pierce my skin once in a while when I’m not careful.

J. What I want to be when I get older: A lovely mother. Psychological researcher, sleep and dream therapist, fashion designer for evening gown and dresses. I want to be like my grandmother.

K. Relationship with my parents: I could rant up a storm about them. I love my mom. Don’t care for my dad. Just to make it short.

L. One of my insecurities: I’m playful. I act innocent.

M. Virgin or not? Uhh. I would hope so… I’m still a virgin.

N. Favorite place to shop at: I don’t shop much. But I love Old Navy.

O. My eye colour: Grey, purple. AHA. That’d be cool. Dark brown.

P. Why I hate school: All those idiots who think it’s cool to be bada**es.

Q. Relationship status: In love with Daniel.

R. Favorite song at the moment: Crap, I usually have one, but I stopped listening to it. So my previous one would’ve been “A Melody, The Memory” by Mae.

S. A random fact about myself: I have shoulder pain and back pain. Really frequently.

T. Age I was mistaken for: Uh, I don’t know. Either 16 or 18.

U. Where I want to be right now: In Guangzhou, China with my grandmother.

V. Last time I cried: Cried as in legit tears? Solo Ensemble.

W. Concerts I’ve been to: Err… C28 Christian concert and that one Christian concert at the HP a long time ago.

X. What would I do if (…)? Uhh. Someone ask me something so I can answer this.

Y. Do you want to go to college: OH HELL YES. UCLA. PLEASE ACCEPT ME.

Z. How are you? Fine. Thank you for asking.

Thing You Shouldn’t Say To…

Things You Shouldn’t Say To…

People suffering from depression:

“Stop being so negative!”
“You choose to be sad”
“You don’t even have anything to be sad about”
“There are millions worse off than you, just get a grip!”

People struggling with self-harm:

“You’re just doing it for attention!”
“Those cuts aren’t even that bad”
“You don’t even have a reason to cut/burn yourself”
“You freak! Hide your scars, no one wants to see those disgusting things”

People that attempt suicide/are suicidal:

“You’re so sefish!”
“You don’t care about anyone but yourself”
“Don’t you realize what this would do to your Mum/Dad/Family/Friends. You need to think about other people and not just yourself”
“Just get over it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and just get on with life”

People suffering from Anorexia Nervosa:

“JUST EAT!”
“You’re just doing this to hurt others”
“There are children dying of starvation and you’re just choosing not to eat, that’s so selfish”
“If you don’t start eating you won’t —- (stay over at your friends this weekend, get your allowance, etc)

People suffering from Bulimia Nervosa:

“Ew! That is so gross!”
“Just stop eating too much!”
“I’ll take all your money off you so you can’t buy binge food”
“I’ll lock the bathroom door to stop you purging”

SURVIVORS of Rape, Sexual Abuse, Molestation and Incest:

“You probably asked for it/insinuated it/gave permission”
“You’re lying/I don’t believe you/(s)he wouldn’t do that”
“Just get over it already! It’s in the past!”
“That is so disgusting. Aren’t you ashamed? I wouldn’t tell anyone if I were you…”

Victims of Bullying

“Just stick it out. They’ll give up soon enough”
“Well maybe you’ve pushed them to it”
“Don’t stick up for yourself or tell anyone ‘cause it’ll make it worse”
“Who cares? They’re not even being that harsh… You’re lucky compared to some people!”

Victims of Domestic Abuse

“Maybe you did something to provoke them?”
“Just fight/argue back”
“Get out of there! You’re doing this to yourself the longer you stay there”
“A lot of people have it worse than you…”

Victims of emotional trauma/abuse

“Maybe you should just do as they ask, then they won’t get angry”
“Just ignore them”
“What they’re saying doesn’t matter. Stop letting it affect you”
“You’re just too sensitive”

People struggling with general/social anxiety

“You’re just socially awkward”
“Why would anyone be afraid of that?”
“If you don’t want to hang out with me anymore, just tell me straight! Don’t make up all this crap about being anxious”
“Just get over it!”

Most common ‘insult’ that is misunderstood:

“Attention-seeker” - Ever been called that?
When you’re struggling with any of those things above, or similar things and someone calls you an “attention seeker”, it can be like being stabbed in the stomach and feeling the knife twisting.

After years of people calling me an attention seeker, I will admit that just this week, I was called it and it hurt… But here’s the thing: We are ALL attention-seekers.
Attention is a human NEED. So why do people insist on making us feel guilty about that? Why do people insist on making it out to be a bad thing, that only selfish people seek? Each and every one of us seek, or at least long for, attention.

But when you’re struggling with depression, self-injury, an eating disorder, or any mental health illness, “attention seeker” seems to pop up again and again.
Why does this hurt those people more than it would hurt someone else, if we all seek attention? Because when you have a mental illness, there’s an underlying issue(s) that made it develop. It could be a whole bunch of contributing factors, or just one thing so huge, that they have to reach out for it, in any way they can, in order to survive.

I need you to just stop for a moment, and think about those times when you’ve needed attention. The times you’ve been angry and needed someone to rant to. The times you’ve been sad and needed someone to tell you it’ll all be okay. The times you’ve felt alone and desperately needed someone to spend time with you.
What if, in the very midst of those strong feelings, someone called you an “attention seeker” and told you to just get over it? What if you’d spent years upon years dealing with things on your own, and the moment you broke the silence and had the courage to speak out about your suffering, someone told you to “sit down and shut up, and stop seeking attention”. Can you just imagine what that would do?
Now imagine that happening to someone who has already been starved of love, doesn’t know acceptance, has never heard encouragement, never experienced trust, or is just in so much inner turmoil that they feel they need someone to listen and notice they’re struggling, and someone tells them to keep their mouth shut because no one cares.

I just want you to know that “attention seeker” needs to stop being an insult.
We ALL need attention: it’s just a basic human need, and right, that we receive it - in a positive way, of course.
I need you to realize that by using that as an insult, you’re stripping the already-vulnerable and hurting of their courage and strength to speak out and receive help. You’re pushing them into their silent suffering even further. Those two simple words could result in another scar on someone’s skin, another day without food, or another life lost.

Don’t ever, ever underestimate the power of your words.
Words are more powerful than any of us will ever be able to comprehend.
So today, I’m asking that you use your powerful words to spread love, encouragement and hope instead of encouraging self-hate.

(Source: restore-renew-revive, via jbamf-ness)

radiantcolors asked: Z! :D

I AM AWESOMEEEEEE. Because I am Queena. (:

iliveinabucket asked: D, J, S (:

D- Hardest Thing I’ve Been Through: When you feel disloyal in a relationship. When you want to give up. When things seem gloomy but brighter on the other side. It’s painful because the other person still love you, so very much. And you don’t want to hurt them.

J- What I want to be when I’m older: Either a sleep therapist, psychology researcher, or fashion designer for dresses! But whatever I do, I want to do it with lots of love and passion.

S- Random fact: I just survived another year of the 30 Hour Famine! Gonna be running around asking for donations this whole week. I hate seeing people hungry. I share my food all the time. Even if it means I have to be hungry too, at least we can both share the pain. But I want to change how people see world hunger and I want to prevent world hunger from striking in general.

Thanks Terry! ♥

loveelliehang asked: YOU NEVER HEARD OF GRAVE OF THE FIREFLIES?! GO and watch it!. And if you don't cry, then you have no soul.

Sadly I haven’t! That’s going on my movies to watch over the summer list! :D I’ve probably cried watching all of the other movies. :P

Put a letter in my ask box! Any letter! :D I get bored too you know...

• A. Why my last relationship ended.
• B. Favourite band.
• C. Who I like and why I like them.
• D. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
• E. My best friend.
• F. My favourite movie.
• G. Sexual orientation.
• H. Do I smoke/drink?
• I. Have any tattoos or piercings?
• J. What I want to be when I get older.
• K. Relationship with my parents.
• L. One of my insecurities.
• M. Virgin or not?
• N. Favourite place to shop at?
• O. My eye colour.
• P. Why I hate school.
• Q. Relationship status as of right now.
• R. Favourite song at the moment.
• S. A random fact about myself.
• T. Age I get mistaken for.
• U. Where I want to be right now.
• V. Last time I cried.
• W. Concerts I’ve been to.
• X. What would you do if (…)?
• Y. Do you want to go to college.
• Z. How are you?